Why Willingness Wins
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Why Willingness Wins
Have you ever tried something new, only to abandon it a week later? I once signed up for a gym membership with the hopes of transforming my health, only to quit after a few intense sessions. The problem wasn't my goal—it was my willingness to continue this nearly impossible task I had created. What I needed was to make small and consistent efforts. It reminded me that learning, too, requires the same balance of willingness and persistence.
What Are You Willing to Do? Not Willing to Do?
When it comes to learning, the first question you need to ask yourself is: what are you willing to do? Are you willing to spend 15 minutes a day reviewing vocabulary? Are you willing to make mistakes and learn from them? Will you try out new methods to help you engage with the material? If you're clear about what you're willing to do, you'll create a learning plan that’s achievable and effective.
An Example of Strong Will
Are you willing to do this?
You don’t have to be!
You do need to decide on the things you are willing to do consistently.
What is your river? How do you want to cross it? Will you cross it as often as possible?
The Gym Metaphor: Small Changes Lead to Big Results
Think about it this way: when most people join a gym, they sometimes go all in with the intention of working out intensely every day. But soon, they burn out because the changes they’re trying to make aren’t sustainable (Bradshaw, n.d.). It’s the same with learning. If you try to tackle a huge goal all at once, you might get frustrated or overwhelmed. Instead, make small changes every day. For example, spend 15 to 20 minutes practicing English. This will give you better results over time.
What Are You Willing to Do Every Day?
Building consistency is key. Setting an intention to practice a language for a small chunk of time every day will gradually lead to progress. It’s the little daily habits that add up to lasting change. By understanding your limits and making small, manageable changes, you’ll build the consistency needed for long-term success. Pair this with understanding your memory and learning style and choose the right activities for your moods and energy levels.
Conclusion
Willingness isn’t about doing something extreme; it’s about choosing what you’re willing to do every day and continuing with it. It is about willing to try new things and make necessary changes when things do not work anymore. Don’t be afraid to try new things, and allow yourself to evolve on your learning journey. Your willingness to try and adapt will ultimately lead to the most powerful transformation.
Sources
Bradshaw, E. (n.d.). Psychology behind why we quit exercising. Dr. Erika Bradshaw. https://www.drerikabradshaw.com/psychology-behind-why-we-quit-exercising/
