Why Willingness Wins
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Why Willingness Wins
Have you ever tried something new, only to abandon it a week later? Sadly, I have. I once signed up for a gym membership with the hopes of transforming my health, only to quit after a few intense sessions. The problem wasn't my goal—it was my willingness to continue this nearly impossible task I had created. What I needed was to make small and consistent efforts. It reminded me that learning, too, requires the same balance of willingness and persistence.
What Are You Willing to Do?
Not Willing to Do?
When it comes to learning, the first question you need to ask yourself is: what am I willing to do? Are you willing to spend 15 minutes a day reviewing vocabulary? Are you willing to make mistakes and learn from them? Will you try new methods to help you engage with the material? If you're clear about what you're willing to do, you'll create a learning plan that’s more achievable and effective.
An Example of Strong Will
Are you willing to do this to learn?
You don’t have to be!
Make a decision about what you are willing to do consistently.
What is your river? How do you want to cross it? Will you cross it as often as possible?
What Are You Willing to Do Every Day?
Building consistency is key. Setting an intention to practice a language for a small chunk of time every day will gradually lead to progress. It’s the little daily habits that add up to lasting change. By understanding your limits and making small, manageable changes, you’ll build the consistency needed for long-term success. Pair this with understanding your memory and learning style and choosing the right activities for your moods and energy levels.
Conclusion
Willingness isn’t about doing something extreme; it’s about choosing what you’re willing to do every day and continuing with it. It is about willing to try new things and make necessary changes when things do not work anymore. Don’t be afraid to try new things, and allow yourself to evolve on your learning journey. Your willingness to try and adapt will ultimately lead to the most powerful transformation.
Sources
Bradshaw, E. (n.d.). Psychology behind why we quit exercising. Dr. Erika Bradshaw. https://www.drerikabradshaw.com/psychology-behind-why-we-quit-exercising/
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